ok, I am still learning where to post!!

[Morticiaa1979]

We all post pics and stories of how the convicts made it to our wall of shame.  What about trying to match the cases with pictures of the victims.  The victims are much more than a name, they are a face, a staple in someone's life. I know that might be a HUGE task, but to make a point to those who are against the death penalty.  They can see the face and see they are as real as you and I.  That they once roamed the earth, amongst you and I.  It is only when they are touched by tragedy, do they change their tune.  Wanting them to be punished to the fullest by state's law.  It is a known fact that when you post a picture of an item at the grocery store, that 95% of consumers will be interested in it or buy it.  The case may take on a whole new level if you can see a face.  Makes you think it could be your family member!! 

New subject--just to say that I am angered over the sentencing of a woman who killed her disabled son.  Her sentece was 3 yrs min.  She faced life, but pled out.  Judge Davis had a chance to give her the max. on the plea which is 10 yrs.  Cynthia Standifer got away with murder!!  We need to really change the laws on pleas.  There are other parents out there, that think killing the child is a "mercy" killing.  Hate to tell them, who made them judge, jury and executioner.  The children were put here for a reason.  I am at real unease at the fact, she may get out sooner for good behaviour and be allowed around other kids!!

[Heidi Salazar]

If the victim's pics are available with a story I will post it. I try not to hunt a picture down out of respect for the grieving family that may not want it posted.

On to the other subject. There are so many resources for parents with children with disabilities, but they are usually only available during normal business hours. Until Hailey received a g-tube for feedings and medications there were countless days and nights I spent at her bedside with little or no sleep, suctioning, giving her droplets of water so she wouldn't become dehydrated. Many times I would ask whatever powers that be to end my child's suffering. Could I have done it with my own hands NO!! I was fortunate enough to have a wonderful relationship with Hailey's doctors. to I was able to call and say, "I am tired can Hailey be admitted to the hospital?" The answer was always yes.

I have not read the story of Cynthia Standifer, but I will be sure to google her. I will probably want to kill her myself!!

[Morticiaa1979]

I have 2 autistic sons, ages 6 and 8.  The thought HAS NEVER crossed my mind.  My way of thinking is God gave me them to hold, kiss, love and care for, whatever time they are here with us.  They are blessings.  I get tired and I have had more support since they have gotten older and in school.  Mothers in particular are more of the caretakers than men are.  I am sorry you have a child who is ill.  It is difficult, but we look past that and think of the smiles we receive knowing we have done something right.  Just remember the children's smiles and it makes it worth every moment. 

[Heidi Salazar]

OH MY...I hope I didn't come across as sympathetic to that worthless POS!! I was wallowing in self pity for a moment!

[Morticiaa1979]

any parent with a child who has special needs, no matter what they are, are pillars of strength and are very respected by me.  You are a mom with legitimate issues and you are not sympathetic towards her for her crimes.  We all fall for the she has special needs children, but it stops after those words.  Her actions after those words uttered are what we can not tolerate, nor should we.  She took an innocent and she needs to pay.  Hammurabi's code states an eye for an eye, a tooth for a tooth....I commend all the hard work any parent does and we ALL need breaks!!  It is in the best interest of the child/ren and the parents.  I do not think ill of you for needing a break.  Heck, I need breaks too.  Getting wiped out is not only unhealthy for you, but for your child too.